Parenting while being a student

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Being a parent while in school is no easy feat. Congratulations on choosing to further your education and showing your children what strength and determination look like. By choosing to continue your education, you’re demonstrating to your children the power of perseverance and the courage it takes to pursue your goals.

Tips for student-parents

Below are a few tips to help get your started. More tips and suggestions are listed in the Recommended Articles section.

Create a schedule

Add in all of your assignment due dates, class times or when you plan to complete the modules, your children’s schedules, your work schedule, family time, down time, and other responsibilities. Pick a tool that works for you, such as Google Calendar.
Add in when you plan to study and complete the assignments. As a general rule, expect to spend about two hours per week studying for each course credit. For example, a four-credit class typically requires around eight hours of study time each week. If the class is particularly challenging, plan for more study time; if it feels easier, you may be able to reduce the amount accordingly.
Share your schedule with those who need to be informed and can help the family stick to the schedule.

Create a supportive environment¹

Set up a dedicated study space, even if it is a small area. This can help create separation and allow you to stay focused and organized.
Involve your whole family. Do your children have homework, chores, or other tasks? Plan quiet time to complete assignments, tasks, etc. at the same time.
Ask for help from friends, family, and your instructor. It can be hard to ask for help, but the support can be beneficial.
Plan for sick days and emergencies. Children may get sick often, and having a plan for when they do can help ease the stress.

Maintain motivation

Think about your “why” and don’t lose sight of it, especially when everything feels challenging. Why are you in school? Who are you doing this for? What are your goals?
Set goals and a plan to achieve them. Include long-term and short-term goals. Celebrate your goals as you achieve them.
Make it visible. Whether it is your “why” (such as a picture of your family), a specific goal, a grade you’re proud of, etc. having something tangible and visible can help with motivation during challenging times.

PCC resources and information

Below are resources and information designed to support you as you move forward in your academic journey.

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Sources

¹ How Do You Balance Being a Parent and a College Student?

Portland Community College | Portland, Oregon

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